In marriage, all that matters at the end of each day, is your faith in God and your love for each other. What I strive for is the ability to end each and every day with the knowledge that I treated my husband with kindness and respect, and that he knew, without a doubt, that he was loved...
Today I start a 40 day journey toward a better marriage, I hope that some of you will come along on this journey, there is always something that we can learn from each other.

Wednesday, February 25, 2009

day 4 : love is thoughtful

How precious also are Your thoughts to me. . . .How vast is the sum of them! If I should count them, they would outnumber the sand.

—Psalm 139:17–18


Contact your spouse sometime during the business of the day. Have no agenda other than asking how he or she is doing and if there is anything you could do for them.

Recap of yesterday:

I will be very honest in saying that I didn't do well with this yesterday, I was upset and the last thing I wanted to do was "play nice". I'm struggling with issues with our finances, and when I feel that my husband isn't listening to me it bothers me more than the actual issues that I'm trying to discuss... I need to learn to be kind, in spite of what's going on between us.

Lesson learned: I can still treat someone with kindness and respect, even if I'm not happy with them at the moment...


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